As an adult man, you may be wanting learn to connect, or reconnect with intimacy as an antidote to a stressful modern world.
Buried beneath our modern exteriors, our clouded thoughts and the demands and expectations placed on us we are all simply primates. Yes we are human, but compared to our bonobo cousins, for some of us, the many gains we have are offset by losses. Sometimes its good to remind ourselves how and why.
AS OUR GUEST
We only invite solo men as guests. We are not here to change, fix or advise on active relationships; we are here to help individual men stand a little taller and feel listen too and appreciated. Independently you are at more liberty to be honest and open and get the most from a visit with us.
As a couple, we are very aligned and are most comfortable around the dynamics of individuals. As our guest you my see us as a couple, but we ensure we interact with guests as individuals.
In conversation, among other topics, we can offer alternative views around relationships & intimacy that works for us. We practice ethical non monogamy and, if you wish, we can share our insights and experiences around respect, values, connection without commitment, open relationships and why the standard narrative is flawed. Of course this may not be of interest to you - no problem, you are still very welcome to visit for your own reasons. Knowing our world-view before you arrive at least helps you understand us a little.
WHO ARE OUR GUESTS?
Single men from aged 30 up to 70. They visit for many different reasons.
YOUNGER MEN
Often younger men struggle with communication and therefore intimacy in a complex, competitive world having grown up in the social isolation of the digital age. With endless stimulation online its easy to get desensitised to reality. Sometimes it's a matter of just being inexperienced in intimacy through your journey so far.
We grew up pre-internet which required face-to-face interaction to create connections and we believe the skills we had to master still matter. If this is you and you are open to learning some of these skills, then we are happy to teach.
MIDDLE-AGED MEN
There is a plethora of middle-aged men out there; independent, hard-working, often successful in business but also often divorced and simply in need of meaningful human contact. Not a relationship, just to be listened to, smile, laugh get recharged and go back into the world standing a little taller. Refill the 'wellness' tanks, if you like. If this is you then, as we are your generation, you may find this the perfect place to visit.
SENIOR MEN
Senior men may be widowers, or long-time divorced. Often they still have much of the mental energy of youth and because of that they are out of step with many of their contemporaries and spending more time alone. Sometimes their bodies have not kept up with their minds but they still crave some form of intimacy to feel alive again. The world is not so kind to senior men, but we welcome you.
Ultimately we believe there is far more retreat opportunities for women, hence we especially welcome men.
You cannot swim for new horizons until you have courage to lose sight of the shore.
W. Faulkner